Today I came back from office very early as I wanted to complete my pending novel "Catch-22" but i got call from my friend to come to a pub as they were celebrating for this tour to USA. I rushed to reach the venue and I found some of my very close frnds in which there was a lady frnd of mine also. We enjoyed alot, had fun, drunk to brink, puffed and decided to watch a movie together at 12. But we were accompaning a lady friend who was married and her husband was waiting for her. She was enjoying to her fullest with us, she was not wrong in any aspect but but but....there was a concern, not for her but for us that her husband is there who can feel bad about all this. I dont know what he is, what he thinks about all this but i think that she has right to enjoy her life and to enjoy it even if she is married or committed. Her husband understands her best, he is very cool and very cooperative as we had some of the parties with him also but then he is a man, chauvinistic by his nature, which is very obvious.
He could have felt bad but its natural but my frnds thought that its all mistake of that girl as she is very much outgoing and try to enjoy her life. For me, she is very good person but she should understand what her husband wants from her, thats it.
For others, she is betraying her husband but in actual she is not. She is pure and friendly and best. The only thing is that we should leave them on their own and should not judge what she is or what he is, but we do, they do, and that spoils everything.
I enjoyed the evening but i wanted them to understand her but they are typical Indian husbands who dont understand his wife but can do anything what they want.
I really hate such mentality but in the end they are my frnds... i wud have to make them understand !!!!!
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Interesting one...
The last sentence may create misconception,
"but in the end they are my frnds... i wud have to make them understand"
because sometimes this attitude may give wrong impression that who the hell are you to tell me what is right and...
The matter of fact is that we are in between a very fast changing world with changing cultural definitions.
To maintain a perception of strong personality 'for our-self', we have to fix our-self with some definitions. But to get an adaptable personality for the real world we have to change our definitions. Its an optimization between self (our defined personality) and the real (free to accept) with the decision variable of definitions.
Now again the same question, who the hell are we to decide others optimization problem ;)
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